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Sunday, October 28, 2001
Books

What she has gained and what she has lost
Review by Rumina Sethi

Women and the Common Life: Love, Marriage and Feminism
By Christopher Lasch and edited by Elisabeth Lasch-Quinn. W. W. Norton, New York and London. Pages 196. $12.95.

CHRISTOPHER Lasch, the controversial historian and brilliant social critic, persisted on the subject of women’s place in both personal and public life in the past 15 years of his life. The complex demands of the project could have only been dealt with by a man who had an erudition as well as an unfailing common sense. Lasch, in this book, "Women and the Common Life", investigates the role of women and the family in American society suggesting rather controversial connections between the history of women and the course of European and American history. He finds fundamental changes in intimacy, domestic ideals and sexual politics which take place as a result of industrialisation and the unleashing of free market economy. Interrogating a fixed image of patriarchy, the book emphasises a feminist vision embedded in a democratic culture.

In the introduction to the book, Elisabeth Lasch-Quinn, Lasch’s daughter and editor, offers an imaginative interpretation of the interconnection between his very thought-provoking writings on this subject. It was suddenly in the year 1985 that Lasch, as he sat with his daughter over tea, mentioned that he was examining Rousseau because "he was trying to trace the interconnections between the modern ideology of intimacy, the new domestic ideal of the nineteenth century and feminism. It’s called, tentatively, the ‘Domestication of Eros’. I have been working on it for a long time but the focus keeps changing . . . . sometimes I wonder how I got myself into this tangle." This imposing theme does not really have any resolution in this collection of his short pieces. It is rather a questionable struggle with the subject, yet it offers riveting incursions into areas that are very absorbing in their intricacy.

 


Lasch, in fact, had begun to write on women’s history in the early 1970s.. He is one of the very few historians who examined the roles women, feminism, love and marriage, and the family play in the history of the West. The reason for this passionate pursuit was his conviction that it is impossible to study cultural history without a sympathetic understanding of these subjects. The value of women could never be underestimated or marginalised as it was inseparable from cultural history as a whole. In a fascinating essay, "The Mismeasure of Man", Lasch writes: "The history of women could not be detached from the history of the human race in general, without reducing it to something slight, and superficial and second-hand."

To chart the history of women would amount to recreating "a history of mankind in a more intimate sense than anything yet attempted". The coherence and lucidity of these essays emerges owing to the parallels between the history of women and the history of the West.

Through nausea and pain, battling continuously against cancer, Christopher Lasch persistently worked on these essays. The essays complement one another brilliantly in spite of their broad assortment of subjects over an extensive time span. The essays, though themselves full of elaborate interpretations, can be supplemented by a full length study of the family in his book, "Haven in a Heartless World: The Family Besieged" which he wrote in 1977. While there are many contradictions in the essays owing to unresolved questions and development of his thinking, several themes are very prominent: shifting marital ideas and practices, feminism’s linkage to the history of the middle-class and the family, an oppositional tradition of love, the history of self-respect and the rationalisation of everyday life.

In many ways, it is this rationalisation of life that indicates the explanation for the alterations in conceptions of love, marriage and feminism. It is with passionate scrutiny that he observes the human experience and carries out an enquiry into the daily existence of women.

These challenging essays are primarily appraisals of present society and an answer to a vigorous alternative to it. Lasch’s views here emerge out of an intense and developed moral code, an obsession with a vision of what bestowed value to life. Never for worldly comfort or success, he endeavoured throughout to engage in productive occupation and to do his bit for the shared life, that is, the life of the family, the community, the nation or the world. The yearning to be always entrenched in the social framework to which one gives earnestly was his lifetime’s project. But he is of the view that such a vision opposes contemporary life where material benchmarks are employed to assess achievements. Personal accomplishment comes before the good of the commune. The self, thus, is false and fragile.

The opinions of the modern-day specialist infiltrate into the arena of family and the community thus injuring both. Scientific rationalism, in turn, becomes a negative development of the industrial age.

Feminism, in Lasch’s view, is neither adverse to patriarchy nor is it a rejection of gender roles that industrial revolution ushered in. It is, on the other hand, an answer to the segregation of women from the mainstream in which she had always had opportunities of relatively valuable work that had given worth to their lives. This had come about in the middle of the 20th century through "suburbanization". Current feminism, according to Lasch, has compounded the damage by inspiring women to embrace the same sterile desires to self-fulfilment in the consumer culture that men held on to for quite a few generations previously.

Lasch examines the relationship between men and women in medieval and early modern texts where they acted with mutual respect and possessed egalitarian roles, though it is to a great extent quite inadequate and lacks the depth so characteristic of his other works. In the pre-industrial era, women had more power and more competence for achievement but with the 19th century trend of romantic love being swapped by the cult of marriage and domesticity, women’s hold on power began to diminish. And as the number of the skilled enlarged, women gradually retracted into empty, unsatisfactory suburban existence so characteristic of the 20th century. Where, in the pre-industrial age, women were gainfully occupied in fashioning life of the family and community, contemporary culture, on the other hand, does not show any such rewards going to them. They appear now to be obsessed only with the idea of gender difference as a source of empowerment. Competing and achieving material comfort is what they seem to be pursuing, thereby replacing caring and nurturing with these materialist engagements.

Such an attitude that prefers the material, so dependent on the nondescript qualities of equal rights and freedom, pays little heed to the notion of "conduct of life" and what is "good". Lasch pursues the idea that the essence of strength, equality, and self-respect derives from taking charge of our own lives, managing to maintain long-term commitments, and facing challenges head on.

Undoubtedly the rise of the liberal order brings these fundamental rights to them, but an inordinate emphasis on them ignores the basis values of life.

True to his argument, Lasch, in a critical essay, demolishes Carol Gilligan who is one of the supporters of the idea of gender difference. He claims that the effect of her analysis "is to assert double standards of competence, performance and moral development while demanding respect for women’s rights." For Lasch, the only way of reaching fulfilment is through "the selflessness experienced by those who lose themselves in their work, in the effort to master a craft or a body of knowledge, or in the acceptance of a formidable challenge that calls on all their resources. It is only in purposeful activity that we find a suspension of egoism that goes beyond conventional self-sacrifice."

Though such views are thought-provoking and provocative, Lasch’s treatment of the feminist movement which is so varied in its concerns, is rather mechanical, often sketchy and quite polemical. Yet the engagingly written book wills to be read, if only for a different opinion since its writer, a masterly cultural historian, cherishes the details of everyday lives of women and listens to their voices past and present. And somewhere these essays put across some hope for a brighter and different future. Experience, common sense and analytical brilliance are behind Lasch’s wide-ranging treatment of women whom he loved and cared for