SHORT TAKES
Learning the norms
Randeep Wadehra
Broom Groom
by Kiran Bedi and Pavan Choudary
Wisdom Village. Pages: 168. Rs 195
Every
society has an unwritten code of conduct governing interaction among
its members; this code – seemingly static – changes with time. It
is true that earlier various communities, existing in relative
isolation, had evolved their own precepts and practices vis-`E0-vis
hygiene (broom) and etiquettes (groom). Gradually, communities began
to interact on various planes, leading to more complex B&G
requirements. In today’s globalised milieu it has become all the
more essential to observe universally accepted etiquette. What
behavioral norms would be apt for interactions with one’s friends,
guests, elders, subordinates, superiors, ladies, strangers etc? For
most of us it could be quite confusing. As the authors point out in
the introduction, "Broom & Groom is an expression of
both anguish and hope. Anguish over the inadequate civic sense in our
society. Hope, because we believe that once we become aware and
sensitive, change will follow".
This book, accordingly,
tries to take a comprehensive look at our B&G needs.
Appropriately, the volume has been divided into two sections. The
first section deals with grooming while the second provides food for
thought on brooming. We are introduced to etiquette both at individual
as well as social levels. Appropriate forms of greetings,
conversations, speech etc get as much attention as how to be a good
host/guest, behave while standing in queues and while staying
in/visiting hotels, restaurants etc. The list is quite elaborate and
covers every situation imaginable, from visiting the sick to observing
road manners and parking etiquette.
It is well known that
values imbibed during the formative years last for life. This book can
be extremely useful to school going children.
When a Jilted Woman
Hits Back
by Dr. Rajinder Singh
Diamond Books. Pages: 174. Rs100
This
novel’s protagonist is Sheila (later on we are told that her actual
name is Sheilwant daughter of Meila alias Meilwant) – a brilliant
student of Dr. Gupta who is a visiting professor to various
prestigious Indian and foreign universities including the London
School of Economics. Now, Gupta has a lamentable tendency to seduce
his female students. Instead of causing a scandal in the academia, it
merely generates tepid reactions like jealousy among the philandering
professor’s ex-flames towards his current favorite. Sheila is not a
newcomer to the campus but is taken in by Gupta’s promise of
marriage and gets impregnated. Thereafter, the professor goes off to
London, where he blithely beds his landlady and her daughter by
turns`85 Sheila pursues him to London and undergoes variegated
experiences. The story ends with a tight slap on Gupta’s cheek (he
had, meanwhile, turned into a godman)...
A pass plot has been
unimaginatively developed and written in a stilted language; there are
certain passages that remind one of Hindi pulp fiction of the 1960s
vintage. It goes without saying that, along with other literary
elements, a writer must master the language too. Unfortunately, this
novel falls far short of expectations.
Samina – A Living
Legend
by Kailash Chander Sharma
Pages: 95. Rs 160
The
only positive thing about this novella is that it narrates the story
of a woman who struggles against the injustices perpetrated in a
patriarchal rural society – a story that could have been engrossing
in the hands of an accomplished writer.
Clearly, the author is
not familiar with the syntax of English language. Moreover, the story
starts off as a first-person narrative, which, after a couple of
pages, turns into third person without any reason.
Apart from poor syntax,
the plot development leaves much to be desired and characterisation is
amateurish.
Being self-published,
there have evidently been no editorial inputs.
It’s always rewarding
to write in the language one is familiar with; apparently, the author’s
forte is Hindi.
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