| Where was the Buddha born? MOST of us are brought up in the
        belief that Gautam the Buddha was born in Lumbini in
        Nepal terai. The basis of the belief was the discovery of
        an Ashokan pillar dug out in Lumbini in 1896 recording
        the august birth of the Master. Thirtytwo years later
        another pillar was found in Kapileshwar village near
        Bhubaneswar stating that the Buddha was born there. So
        was the Buddha born in Nepal or inOrissa? Dr Chakra
        Mahapatra in his book The Real Birth-Place of Buddha (Granth
        Prakasan) stoutly maintains that the Orissan pillar is
        genuine and the one found earlier in Lumbini, merely a
        replica planted there for the sake of recording the event
        because there was wide-spread anti-Buddhist violence in
        Orissa. Unfortunately, the discovery came too late as the
        Buddhist world accepted the evidence of the Lumbini
        pillar as authentic. Pilgrims from across the globe visit
        Lumbini for worship and hardly anyone bothers to pay
        homage at Kapileshwar. Pilgrim traffic to Lumbini cannot
        be now diverted towards Bhubaneswar. However, not all Oriyas
        have given up the fight to claim Buddhas
        birth-place in their state. A few days ago, Dr Bharatendu
        Sundar Rajguru Mohapatra, son of the Oriya historian,
        came to call on me with his pretty Naga wife and son
        (they have nine other children). He gave me a copy of his
        fathers book and lectured to me for over an hour to
        persuade me to write that his father was right and all
        other historians who subscribe to Lumbini as the
        birth-place completely wrong. I do not want to add
        another controversy about birth-places of our religious
        leaders, till after we have amicably settled the
        controversy over the real birth-place of Sri Rama. Zohra
        Sehgal Zohra is the goddess of
        beauty and love after which the planet Venus is named.
        Our Zohra has a beauty uniquely her own and is the most
        lovable of women. Also, most versatile. No woman on the
        screen holds you as spell-bound with her acting as she
        does. Her full name on birth (1912) was the mouth-filling
        Sahibzadi Zohra Begum Mumtaz-ullah Khan.She was one of
        the seven children of a land-owning family of Rohilla
        Pathans settled around Rampur. Like other families of the
        same class she was brought up in Sunni Muslim traditions
         five prayers a day and fasting during Ramadan. Unlike other children
        belonging to conformist families, our Zohra was a rebel
        against tradition. As a girl she was a tomboy fond of
        climbing trees and playing games. As she attained
        puberty, she was forced to wear a burqa. She
        itched to get rid of it, to meet men on equal terms and
        throw off artificial restrains imposed on her. During a
        vacation in Dehra Dun she saw Uday Shankar dance. His
        image stayed in her mind all her life. Early in life she
        wrote: "I didnt want money; I was interested
        in fame, I wanted power." She did not make much
        money nor acquired any power, but she earned a lot of
        fame as a dancer and an actress. With her uncle who was
        closer to her than her father, she travelled all the way
        across India, West Asia and Europe by car. On her return
        she was once again put in a burqa and sent to
        Queen Marys Girls College, Lahore, meant for
        daughters of aristocratic families. Strict purdah
        was observed in the institution and the few males
        invited to speak there (I was one of them) were put
        behind a screen. No sooner did Zohra pass
        out of Queen Marys, she shed her burqa
         this time for ever  and joined Uday
        Shankars dance troupe. She travelled with him, his
        group of dancers to Japan, West Asia, Europe and America.
        It was then that she met Kameshwar Sehgal, a Hindu
        belonging to the Radha Soami sect, and fell in love with
        him. He was eight years younger than her. There was
        initial opposition from her parents but they came round.
        Although Kameshwar was willing to convert to Islam to
        marry Zohra, neither she nor her parents insisted on it.
        The two had a civil marriage in August 1942. Jawaharlal
        Nehru was to attend the wedding reception, but he was
        arrested a couple of days earlier for supporting
        Gandhis Quit India Movement. For a while the couple
        worked in Uday Shankars dance institute at
        Almora.When it shut down, they migrated toLahore and set
        up their own Zoresh Dance Institute. The growing communal
        tension preceding the Partition of India made them feel
        unwelcome. They migrated to Bombay.Zohra joined
        Prithviraj Kapur. From a dancer, she turned into a stage
        actress. The next 14 years the couple stayed in Bombay
        and got to know many celebrities. All Kazi, Chetan and
        Dev Anand, Chetans wife Uma who later married Al
        Kazi, Balraj Sahni and his wife,Damyanti. They had two
        children. They had the choice of being Hindu or Muslim.
        For a while they accepted both, then discarded them.
        Meanwhile,Zohra came to the conclusion that there should
        be more to religions than dietary prohibitions against
        pork or beef and opted for atheism. It is not known what
        her husband felt about religion except that he was a
        non-religious man.He took his own life. Zohra had been acting on
        the stage in different parts of India, including putting
        up plays for jails inmates. In Ferozepore jail after
        staging a play she stayed on to watch an execution. After her husbands
        death, Zohra first moved to Delhi. And then went to
        London where she met Ram Gopal.When she did not get roles
        as a dancer, or an actress, she took on odd jobs like
        working in the India Tea Centre (she hated tea and much
        preferred coffee). But it was in London she got her first
        break in the films and was signed by Arthur Rank and
        Merchant Ivory productions. She apepared in The Raj
        Quartet, Jewel in the Crown, Tandoori Nights, My
        Beautiful Laundrettee and doznes of others. Back in
        Delhi, she continued her film career.  Last year she played the
        leading role in Sadia Dahlvis TV serial Amma
        & Family. Though in her mid-eighties and
        wrinkled, she remains as animated and saucy as ever. Her
        daughter, Kiran, summed her up in a few words,
        "Energy, Sun, Sparkling, Shaking and Crazy." Name
        shooting During the war with
        Pakistan, Banta Singh shot many Pakistani soldiers. He
        would hide behind the bushes and shout Pakistani names
        like Imran Khan, Mohammed Gul, Shahbaz etc. Soldiers
        bearing those would stand up to say I am here: Banta
        Singh would shoot them down. The Pakistani commander
        realised that a Sardarji was killing his soldiers by
        fooling them. So he decided to use Banta Singhs own
        method to kill him and started calling out Sikh names
        like Banta Singh, Santa Singh,Rajinder Singh etc. Banta
        Singh realised that the Pakistani was using his trick.
        When his name was called, he shouted back "who
        called me?" The Commander got up and replied,"
        I did." Banta shot him. (Contributed by Jyotica
        Sikand,Delhi) « « « Santa: Now India and
        Pakistan have exploded five nuclear devices each, it is a
        deuce, as they say in tennis. Banta: No, it is not a
        game. It is set and match to the USA. (Contributed by Suresh
        Kumar Jetli, Goraya) All
        Indians We live in a very small
        town in Midwest, where we are the only Indian family and
        most of the town people are Anglo-Saxons.We were visiting
        India a few years ago. After a long flight we were all
        tired, when we landed at Indira Gandhi Airport in New
        Delhi. My son who was then five years old was especially
        tired and sleepy. We went through all the hassle of
        customs, took a taxi to Kashmiri Gate Interstate Bus
        Terminal.All this time he was sleeping. At bus terminal
        the porters took our luggage to an area from where buses
        for Chandigarh depart. As we were waiting for a bus at
        the platform, my son woke up. He was surprised to see so
        many people all around him. He was in a kind of shock
        until all of sudden he realised that all people around us
        were Indians. He pulled his moms hand and shouted:
        Look mom, everybody here looks like us!" (Courtesy:
        Amir Tuteja, USA) 
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