Generationext
Generation
violent
By Aradhika
Sekhon
THE recent shooting incident in
Columbine High School, Colorado, USA, where two school
boys went on a rampage, killing 13 persons, has made us
ask ourselves the question whether a similar situation is
possible in India. In truth, we need to address ourselves
to the reality that such a situation, or the seeds of it,
has actually been in existence here for some years now
and theres something very big and very malign
afoot. Consider the following sample cases:
--- Bharti Ramachandran (17) was
suffocated and killed by Danish Kazi (18), the son of a
prominent physician.
--- Tanavi (20), student
of Ferguson College Pune, was shot dead by Prasanna
Pandit of the same college who then committed suicide.
--- A senior services
officers daughter attempted suicide twice out of
frustration, while her parents were busy in their club
circuit.
--- Sixteen-year- old
Manish, son of a violent father, who used to beat up his
wife and five children in drunken rages, threw a brick
and seriously wounded his father on the head.
--- And most recently,
Manu Sharma walked into a restaurant and when he was
refused a drink, drew out a gun and shot the bar hostess.
Delhi, along with Madras
and Bombay, contributes heavily to the huge numbers of
adolescents between the age of 12 and 19 who are victims
and perpetrators of violent crime in India each year. The
rate and intensity of violence involving youth and
children has escalated dramatically in the recent years
and much of it is accounted for by adolescents attacking
others in their age groups pushing the adolescent
homicide rates to higher levels. Part of what makes this
social chemistry volatile is the gun and knife culture.
People too young to comprehend the finality of death have
access, even easy access, to death machines. The
psychological harm done to adolescents, either by
possession of weapons or by fear of those who possess
them, is immense. It distorts their behaviour and their
human relations. The atmosphere around them is charged
with the uncertainty of when shots may be fired or a
knife flashed. Luckily, in India, there exists a ban on
the buying and selling of guns but for a person with
means or determination, procuring a weapon is not too
difficult.
Roots
of violence
We must accept that
violence does not suddenly happen at the age
of 16 or 17. It is a part of a long developmental process
that begins during the childhood. Many children mature in
an atmosphere of violent relationships between men and
womenhusbands battering wives, women assaulted by
boy friends and other males or they themselves being at
the receiving end of physical punishment. These children
come to adopt the same attitudes and practices in dealing
with peers and, eventually, their own families as their
elders did.
Sociologically, the
conflict between culturally accepted values and the
socially structured difficulties in living up to them
exert pressure towards deviant and disruptive behaviour.
This also provides a potential for the formation of
subgroups alienated from the rest of the community but
unified within themselves. This pattern is exemplified by
alienated adolescents teaming up in gangs or becoming a
part of a youth movement with a distinctive subculture.
"The need to be considered effective, successful and
recognised being very strong", says Dr. Harpreet
Kanwal, clinical psychiatrist and counsellor,
"adolescents tend to gather around an individual who
seems to be able to give them an identity. This group of
teens under the effect of the glorification of the act,
copy peer group leaders in becoming violent."
This is set on the stage
of Indias presently chaotic socio-cultural value
system which faces the breakdown of traditional values
and institutions, diffused social responsibility and
absence of a national conscience. All this has a
debilitating effect on the minds of our youth. The great
paucity of role models, rather, the visibility of the
wrong type of heroes, proclaims that what is
bad is strong and what is good is necessarily weak. The
favourite Bollywood anti-hero, who takes justice into his
own hands and wrecks vengeance on his enemies, is an
image that has sustained over the past couple of decades.
"Children feel fear, they feel hate ...... their
repressed emotions when exposed to such deviant
heroes turn them into ticking
time-bombs", says a counsellor at a Delhi school.
The political
mobilisation of urban youth into violent
activity---burning buses, taking out morchas,
stone-throwing, etc--- has given impetus to youth
violence. Here it is seen as a means to easy money and
power.
Terribly
entertaining
In discussing the causes
of adolescent violence in urban India, the role of the
entertainment media comes up for examination. The
expressions of violence are constantly visible and
audible in Indian life. An example of just one more entry
into the arsenal of media violence is a video game called
Mortal Kombat, a great teen favourite, which gives the
victor a chance to kill. In its most horrifying version,
it provides the thrill of ripping out the losers
still-beating heart with bare hands or tearing off his
life-like head. This, and other violence-saturated games,
justify the warning issued by the American Psychiatric
Association Commission on youth and violence that
"viewing violence increases the fear of becoming a
victim of violence with a resultant increase in self-
protective behaviours and mistrust of others".
Increasingly unsettling
also is the involvement of youth, particularly from
affluent families, in crimes of sexual violence. One
reason for this, suggests Dr. Sunil Mittal of the Delhi
Psychiatry Centre, is "the increasing exposure of
youth to liberal doses of sex via the media, films and
satellite T.V. These stretch their sexual sanity to a
breaking point. With few commensurate opportunities for
the release of pent-up frustrations, the deviant youth
find vulnerable minor an easy prey."
Parental
responsibility
Says psychiatrist Dr.
A.D. Nayyar, "There is something basically wrong
with the way we bring up children. The environment which
the parents provide to a child determine his attitudes
towards the problem of life. Although certain children
are born with a personality dysfunction, it is mostly
children from unstable families who succumb to pressures
to perform and conform, turning to violence, even self
destruction, to assert themselves. Grossly maladjusted
parents, single-parent families, or where there is the
physical absence of parents are the breeding grounds for
deviants. Also homes where there is plenty of money
for parents who are unable to provide emotionally
stable families tend to over-compensate with money and
this is where children of the moneyed class get
affected."
The projection of
parental ambition onto the child may also cause
personality dysfunction. Many parents confronted with
personal failure or limited success may mute
their original goal emphasis to vicariously reach it
through their children. Research shows that among people
of the lower occupational levels, a substantial
proportion have aspirations for a professional career for
their children. It is these parents who exert great
pressure upon their children for high achievement. This
syndrome of lofty aspirations and limited realistic
opportunities is precisely the pattern which invites
deviant behaviour.
Says Dr Peter Stringham,
counsellor at Department of Paediatric and Adolescent
Medicine in East Boston, "Problems occur when we
transmit the message to young people that they only have
a place in the universe if they are strong, if they look
a certain way, if they are good athletes. Young people
who do not conform to that ideal will most likely
experience problems".
Any
solutions?
The fundamental job of
educating kids lies with the parents. So community
feeling even within the nuclear family needs to be
developed. Giving the adolescents a practical direction
and not constantly pushing or controlling them could be a
solution. The present generation expects situations to be
explained to them and not have idea thrust upon them.
Feelings of tender associations have to be developed so
that the children are so securely rooted that they
neednt go astray. Also, the family has to evolve
its own concepts of life whereby modernity should be
defined vis-a-vis cultural, social and functionally
viable value systems. Finally, society should keep a
watch over places where such peer groups are likely to
originate temporarily or permanently --- places such as
centres of tuition and playgrounds.
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