Ludhiana, December 12
The hope for Mahinder Singh, perhaps, has come too late for him to be sire of a child. He has been treated by doctors to fulfil his wish to have a child. He had struggled, and faced a lot of humiliation back home at Ghalib Kalan village, near here, as he lacked hair on his body, especially on the face, a symbol of a masculinity. He had been unable to “enjoy” his married life. Villagers used to tease him because of it.
He had been running from pillar to post to get treatment for his asdrogen deficiency (missing male hormone) for the past four decades, Quacks, who are available in almost every street in urban areas in the state, befooled and fleeced him for years by promising that they would treat him. He is now 60 years old.
However, now when qualified doctors of the local Dayanand Medical College here have cured him, his wife, already over 56 years, is unable to bear a child.
“I had left the hope that I would be able to lead a normal life because I had approached over a dozen
vaids at different villages but to no avail. I consider myself lucky that I came to Dayanand Medical College and Hospital to get treatment for severe backache. The doctor attending me listened to my problem patiently and told me that I would first be cured for my astrogen deficiency due to which the problem of backache had arisen”, said Mahinder Singh.
Mahinder Singh had visited many self-styled doctors to seek treatment. He had lost interest in life and developed a low sense of well-being. He led a stressful life because people, including family and friends of his village, teased him and his wife for not bearing a child.
He said: “The quacks gave me local medicines and some oils on which I spent thousands of rupees. But they were all useless as I hardly saw any development in myself. I became an irritable and depressed person. I had thoughts of even ending my life”.
Dr Parminder Singh, the consulting doctor and an endocrinologist at DMCH, said the astrogen deficiency could occur at any age. Mahinder Singh could not achieve puberty. He was unable to enjoy his married life either. The problem, PADAM (partial androgen deficiency in adult males), according to the World Literature, is prevalant in 7 to 10 per cent males above 60 years of age.
“But his case is altogether different. His life has been spoiled by quacks, who did not let him go to any qualified doctor. He is responding to the treatment and there are chances that he may be able to produce if he continues with his treatment. Unfortunately, the wife of Mahinder Singh is now unable to reproduce as she is 56”, said Dr Parminder Singh.
The doctor said that treatment of the disease was costly as the patient had to spend Rs 5,000 to Rs 6,000 per month on injections and medicines. The life of Mahinder Singh has been changed in the recent past. He has developed moustache and beard. He has started enjoying married life. But he says,”I love my wife. She has always stood by me in good as well as bad times. If now she is unable to produce a child that does not mean I should go for a second marriage, said Mahinder Singh.