Ludhiana, June 12
“Mummy, does my papa have another woman in some other country? Will you leave him if you find that there is another woman in papa’s life?’ asked Jeetu, a teenager from his mother after watching a serial on a TV channel. Sudha, his mother was so stunned at these questions that she lost her voice for some time. It slowly dawned on her that her son’s insecurities were the result of watching serials wherein they glamourise adultery.
On Star TV, practically all serials starting with letter ‘K’ have the ‘other woman’ playing a predominant role. Men stray into adultery without any qualms or so it seems from these serials. Ms Rita Mahajan, a school teacher says, “I am really shocked at the way the women are portrayed in these serials. They are projected as horribly conniving women who seem to have nothing on their mind but to have their ‘man’ by hook or by crook. To get their man, they will go to any length. It is terrible to see characterisation of women in such negative shades. Such serials definitely send negative vibes. We do not feel relaxed, but rather irritated to see the character of women shown in poor light.”
Serials on other channels like ZEE also telecast serials that harp on one theme- i. e connivance of women in a ruthless manner to reach their goals. It does not matter whether they are housewives or working women. They are determined to get what they want even if they have to commit a murder.
Komolikas, Ramolas, Pallavis, Payals, Nikithas have such demonic smiles and thoughts and the way they are projected creates a sense of revulsion.
Dr Vijay Singh says,” I will never allow such serials to be watched by anyone in my family. After a hard day’s work, we want relaxation and not tension. Moreover, such serials do not teach us any good values as they are so long drawn out that they get on one’s nerves. We like to see serials that has comedy so that one feels relaxed,. Atleast one TV channel has taken a right step in this direction.”
Dr Ravinder Kala, a psychologist says,” I have known families that are addicted to such serials to such an extent that they put every thing else on hold. In the serials, they show women doing things that reflect behaviour displaying hidden reflexes. The women in the serials take the women viewers to different kind of a world which is far away from reality and hence the emotional dependence on these serials. The negative roles are projection of the serial maker as to how society is viewing women. They are trying to put certain labels to women. The serial makers should look first into their own psyche as to why they are making serials depicting women in the negative light.
Even viewers should be more aware, more realistic and should be able to view these serials as just having gossip value. Infact, for young girls there is another lurking danger. Awe struck by glamour, the young girls may consider these women as role models, with whom they might identify themselves and show similar behaviour when they are grown up. Such negative portrayals are not good for the psyche of growing girls and serials should be reviewed by a regulatory body.”