Ludhiana, July 25
“I yearned for 18 years to see my anthology of gazals in print. I had a passion for writing and started writing when I was 13. I faced stiff opposition from my parents and in-laws but I persisted with my writing. Finally my efforts bore fruit,” says Sukhwinder Amrit, Punjabi gazal writer.
She centres the theme around the position of women in a male-dominated society and love. The position of economically independent literate women has improved, yet even they feel that in spite of empowerment, they have not been able to throw away the yoke of male dominance. The position of illiterate women and housewives has not changed. It seems time has halted for them as their position is the same as the woman of a century ago”, she says.
Talking of love, she says, “Women have a reservoir of love in their hearts. They want to shower their love on men but the irony is that they do not find men worthy of their love. Their love and intensity is not understood by men.”
She says sometimes talented girls with writing potential are born in families that have negative attitude towards their talent. Parents lack wisdom and don’t allow them to pursue their dreams. “My advice to women is to continue fighting the odds with a single-minded objective to succeed and success will be theirs”, she says.
“Women writers are like salt in flour. New writers do not find ready acceptance in the male-dominated world of writers. Where gender bias persist. Even in my case, I had to prove my worth with each new publication of my book. Now with the editing of “Kesar de Chitte”, a collection of gazals penned by prominent gazal writers of Punjab, like Surjit Patar and Ajaib Chitarkar, I have gained a certain position in the Punjabi literary world,” she says.
Her collections, “Suraj di Dehleez,” and “Chiragan di Daar” have found acceptance with the writers. “After a struggle of two decades, my family has finally accepted my passion for writing. Now it takes pride in my achievements”, she says, adding that talent coupled with hard work and determination is always rewarding.
These lines penned by her sums the essence of her poetry:
“Tur rahi haan mein, chhuri di dhar te, Pher vi au khush nahin raftar te, Mein fateh pawni hai aaj majhdar te, Ek chumban de mere patwar
te.”