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upon a time, a Brahmin was asked by his wife to watch over their sleeping baby girl while she went to fetch water. He adored his little girl and happily sat by her side admiring her beauty. In the meantime, the king’s messenger came to invite him for a meal at the palace. The dutybound Brahmin did not know what to do. He was thrown into a state of dilemma for he knew he could neither leave the baby unattended, nor could he disobey the royal orders. He decided to let their loyal pet, a mongoose, look after the baby.
He gave all instructions and leaving a note for his wife, he set out for the palace. On his return, he met the mongoose sitting outside with his mouth and paws covered with blood. He was shocked and at once assumed that the wretched animal had killed their baby and devoured it.
Blinded with fury, he battered it to death. With a heavy heart, he then entered the house to apologise and share grief with his wife. He was stunned when he found the mother and child playing and bubbling with joy. His wife, unaware of his action, expressed her greatest admiration for the mongoose and told him about how it had fought and killed a poisonous snake that had tried to attack their child.
The Brahmin sank down and wept bitterly, filled with deep remorse at his impulsive action of having ruthlessly killed his pet. He had not only taken a precious life, which he could not return, but was also guilty of a breach of faith. He had without any basis doubted the undying loyalty of the other.
So, in our daily life we must not follow our impulses and act or say things that we may regret later. We need to exercise restraint and let our discerning faculty and wisdom guide us in our actions. It is a thought-out action that truly bears fruitful results. Words once spoken and actions done cannot be retrieved, at best only rectified and thus remain like a patch on a tear. The fabric cannot be restored to its harmonious weave again.
We must be the masters of our mind and senses. Our intellectual association with our conscience should maintain its superiority over the lower faculties. So, carefully examine the first urges – this is a necessary prerequisite for a successful life.
Whenever you feel disturbed or restless due to some sudden problems or some irrelevant remarks by somebody avoid reacting immediately or coming under sudden provocation. Retain your cool and try to get to the heart of the matter before responding.
Even in the examination, we know that we need to mentally prepare answers before penning them down, or else they lack coherence and depth.
We need to be the drivers of our life and not hand the steering wheel over to impulses, moods and passions. Rational thinking and behaviour are special gifts given only to man by God.
Thus, to be morally free a man must be able to resist instinctive impulses by exercising self-control.
As a student it is crucial to read the instructions and questions carefully before attempting the examination paper. Silly errors are not forgiven.
Therefore, to succeed one needs to be calm, patient and understand the requirements.
Haste makes waste –you may misread questions or leave out some portions and thus spell your own doom. The same philosophy holds good in life too.
We must remember, “He that ruleth his own spirit is greater than he that taketh the city.” Moderation in all things and regulating one’s actions by judgement are essential parts of wisdom.
Madhu Chandra,
Principal, Birla Vidya Niketan
