|   A devalued United
        Nations APROPOS of the editorial "
        Clinton under trial" (Dec 21), the US-UK bombing of
        Iraq was nothing but Mr Clinton's effort to exploit a
        crisis to divert public attention from his impeachment
        imbroglio. With scant regard for the values of restraint,
        abstinence and morality, he follows the ideology of
        killing people for his "lofty goal" of ensuring
        the security of life to the world! Mr Clinton has not only
        dimmed the image and stained the prestige of the While
        House but also devalued the UN and turned it into a
        helpless instrument in the hands of an arrogant bully. His misuse of his office
        makes one wonder whether the people of America are so
        docile and irrational that anything opposed to their
        ideology (whims?) of dominance and exploitation sounds as
        violative of "human dignity and socio-cultural
        values." The bombardment of Iraq was without the
        explicit consent of the Security Council. If these attacks on Iraq
        are not to be "the beginning of an end" for the
        UN, the world body must check the bullish tactics of a
        contemptuously arrogant member. The writing on the wall
        is clear. Let us not close our eyes to it. VED GULIANIHisar
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        * * Fire
        and Meghdoot To all the Shiv Sainiks
        agitated over the movie Fire, my suggestion
        is to first read Kalidasa's Meghdoot
        carefully. Secondly, I ask them to
        investigate the cult of Yellamma and the origin of it. JAGDEEP K. SANDHUBathinda Cantt
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        * * Open
        governance The views expressed by Mr
        M.G. Devasahayam in his article, "Open
        governance", are too good to be neglected. Being
        formerly an IAS officer, he knows the deeper and finer
        aspects of the Indian administration, along with its
        shortcomings. And his views and suggestions can be
        understood only by those who are serious about the
        country's future. If we compare our
        politicians and the whole political system with that in
        the past we find that it has gone far below its level and
        reputation. With growing corruption and the lure to come
        to power, the real motto of the country's development has
        got a setback. Being the citizens of this
        democratic country, we can make or mar its future. The
        youth of this country has to shoulder the responsibility
        of taking it into the next millennium. But the majority
        of the younger generation hasn't released this so far.  The need of the hour is to
        come together and join hands to change the present
        system. Let us do something before it is too late. AMIT VYASChandigarh
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        * * Civil
        Services exams It is heartening to note
        that the Government of India has raised the upper age
        limit for recruitment through the Civil Services
        examination , 1999, from 28 to 30 years (Dec 25). The decision of the
        government is in consonance with the aspirations of the
        candidates who are to go in for the Civil Services
        examination. As the implementation of
        the order will be effective from April 1, 1999, there are
        apprehensions that the government has left a lacuna of
        not notifying the chances to be attempted by the students
        who have attained the age of 28 years. During January, 1978, the
        age limit for the Civil Services examinations was raised
        from 26 years to 28 and consequently the chances to be
        availed/attempted were raised from three to four. In 1986
        the Yashpal Committee had also recommended that the
        chances for the candidates be raised from four to five. It would, therefore, be
        worthwhile if the government extends the chances from
        four to five to the candidates, as raising the age limit
        from 28 to 30 years will not benefit a large number of
        candidates who have attained the age of 28 years and have
        exhausted four attempts. The past practice is that
        while raising the age limit, the government has also been
        invariably increasing the number of attempts. SAT PAL SHARMAPatiala
 
            
                | Controlling
                one's anger This refers to
                news-item "Sentenced to die over Rs 20"
                (Dec 24). An old man killed three members of a
                family in a fit of anger over a dispute involving
                a paltry sum of Rs 20. What a tragedy! Truly has
                it been said: "Anger is half-insanity." In this regard, I
                may say that a man is a man only so long as he is
                in complete control of himself. Just as an
                automobile is useless without brakes and is
                dangerous for life, similarly, a man without
                self-control is prone to many pitfalls. In a fit
                of rage, he can walk out of his home or turn out
                his wife from his home. A few words spoken in
                anger to a friend may result not only in the loss
                of years of friendship but also make a dear
                friend a sworn enemy. Exchange of a few hot words
                may lead to a verbal quarrel which may in turn
                lead to a physical fight resulting in someone's
                death.  An aspirant of
                controlling his anger must guard against
                pretending to be angry. When a person pretends to
                be angry, his pretension is not known to the
                other person with whom he is acting angrily.
                Seeing him angry, the other person gives him a
                similar response. In the process, the pretension
                is forgotten and he starts behaving actually
                angrily. During
                conversation, one should watch one's words that
                one speaks. Words are not playthings. Every word
                is a symbol of some thought. A harsh word spoken
                charged with the emotion of anger pierces the
                heart of the person to whom it is spoken like a
                bullet fired from a gun. Getting along with
                other people means treating them as our equals.
                Conversation should be an exchange of thoughts
                and information in a friendly atmosphere. Our
                thoughts are very much affected by the kind of
                words we say. We cannot be angry and also at
                peace with ourselves at the same time. If we are
                irritated by the unkind words of someone, we
                should not make the object of our irritation as
                the subject of our discussion with everyone any
                anyone. For every repetition of narration of that
                event will make us relive that unpleasant
                experience which will simply add to our misery
                and sorrow. If we hold the
                ideas of cheerfulness, confidence, gratitude and
                goodwill towards everybody and appreciate
                whatever is noble and loving in others, we shall
                be surprised to see how quickly our enemies
                become our well-wishers. A.K. SURIChandigarh
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