| Law of dual cause UNHAPPINESS is alien to a mans
        nature, and it depends for its existence to some extent
        upon certain external conditions but mainly upon the
        conditions of the mind. Something goes wrong and a man
        becomes unhappy. There are two causes that create that
        undesirable state of his mind. Let us call them
        action and reaction. Action is
        the external cause  an event  and reaction to
        it is the internal cause, which may be called a negative
        behavioural response to an event. This is known as law of
        dual cause that is responsible for a mans
        unhappiness. The external cause in
        itself does not make a man unhappy unless it affects the
        internal attitude or, in other words, generates a
        negative reaction in him. Thus unhappiness depends more
        upon the inner attitude towards an external condition
        than on the external condition itself. If it is positive,
        it brings happiness to him but if it is negative it
        causes unhappiness. It is possible for a man
        to stop the joint action of the two causes that makes him
        unhappy. While he has a choice in actions which he
        himself performs, he has unlimited field in controlling
        the negative reactions to the actions of others, over
        which he has, obviously, no direct control. A control
        within is not only within his power but is also the
        easier method of attaining than a control without. As an illustration, let us
        suppose that someone speaks harsh words to us without any
        provocation. There are two possible reactions to it. One
        is that we may treat the abuse as an insult and retaliate
        it giving abuse for abuse or even coming to blows.
        Alternatively, we may refuse to accept the abuse by
        taking no notice of it. We exactly behave in a similar
        way when abused by an insane person. The difference
        between the two types of attitude is self-evident and
        needs no elaboration. The million dollar
        question is: should we allow ourselves to be slaves to
        others who can make us unhappy at their will by their
        pinpricks, or should we exercise self-control and remain
        always calm and peaceful, come what may? A charioteer is
        one who controls an unruly horse and not the one who
        merely holds the reins and lets the horse go wither it
        would. A. K. SURIChandigarh
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        * * Tired,
        yet enthusiastic This refers to Kuldip
        Nayars article, Vajpayee regimes 200
        days (Sept 25). It appears as of Mr Atal Behari
        Vajpayee is a little tired and weary of conferences and
        doubtful of their utility. But even though his enthusiasm
        for conferences may have waned, the feelings of public
        betterment is as high as ever. He is worried about the
        growing prices and the problems faced by the common man
        that of an insensitive bureaucracy, growing corruption
        and the miscellaneous other affairs of public concern. India is tied down to the
        area where we reach and get influenced by material things
         guns and goods. Foreign policy also depends on
        these two things. As these goods are limited, so are
        policies. These limited policies are defensive and the
        defensive policies are losing policies. Mr Vajpayee has
        to make use of his experience and take India towards a
        fully self-reliant and economically well built country. I
        would like to quote a few words of John Wesley for Mr
        Atal Behari Vajpayee: Do all good you can,In all ways you can,
 In all the places you can,
 At all the times you can,
 To all the people you can,
 As long as you can.
 VIVEK SINH MAR
        GIRANKurukshetra
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        * * Implications
        of Afghan conflict Mr Inder Malhotra's
        article "Afghanistan's mounting peril  unheard
        alarm bells" (The Tribune, September 23) meets a
        deeply felt need  understanding the developments in
        that hapless country occurring for quite some time. Firstly, it is not easy to
        get over the gnawing suspicion whether the US missile
        attacks, widely resented in international fora, were
        intended to blunt Osama bin Laden's terrorist activity.
        Frankly speaking, one is reminded of the Gulf of Tonkin
        episode of the late sixties staged to justify the
        escalation of the US involvement and intensified bombing
        in Vietnam. This appears to be palpably the case and, as
        observed by Mr Malhotra, "the thundering silence of
        the USA on the dangers posed by the Taliban and its
        promoter and patron, Pakistan...", particularly in
        the context of its long quest and abiding itch to take
        control of oil and natural gas-rich Central Asia, is a
        precursor of the events to come. Secondly, at another
        level, the compulsive involvement of Shia Iran in the
        developments in Afghanistan following the calculated
        massacre of its diplomatic personnel in Mazar-i-Sharif
        seems to have been taken into account by the wily policy
        planners in Washington to carry forward their strategy of
        hunting with the hound and running with the hare
        perfected in the Iran-Iraq war and earlier in the
        Sino-Indian context. Apart from the ominous
        portents of the emerging confrontation in Afghanistan for
        Russia and other members of the CIS, the developing
        situation has some lessons for India. It was under Mr
        Vajpayee's stewardship of the Ministry of External
        Affairs that Pakistan was allowed to become a
        full-fledged member of the nonaligned movement. Will the
        new dispensation show the necessary grit and firmness not
        to let any undue advantages go to Pakistan and the
        Taliban, under the benign influence of the USA or
        otherwise, in the name of helping the new adversaries
        take more sober attitude? Any faux pas in the sphere of
        the CTBT or any other area could prove costly for India. J. N. NARANGChandigarh
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