"Values must be
taught early"
Tribune
News Service
CHANDIGARH, May 7
The murder of Jessica Lal has testified the fact that
law, as the common man knows or fears, is not for the
so-called rich and influential. This is mainly
responsible for the growing incidence of violence in the
social set-up.
A cross-section of
people contacted by Tribune News Service to elicit their
views on what corrective measures could be taken to curb
violence were of the view that law should treat everyone
equally, social values should undergo a change and
parents should spend more time with children to monitor
their lives in a better way.
Dr B.S Chavan, Professor
and Head of Department of Psychiatry, Government Medical
College, Sector 32, recommends early detection of
emotional problems among children . He further suggests
that parents should not hesitate to approach counsellors
or psychiatrists to help them in case of any problem.
Both parents and
teachers can play a significant role in identifying such
problems through various direct and indirect indicators
like withdrawn from others, lack of interest in studies,
missing classes, constant fighting etc. He is of the view
that pent-up emotions, conflicts and unsolved problems of
growing children often lead to aggression.
Hence, children should
be encouraged to participate in various recreational and
religious activities.The channelisation of the excess
energies of youth in the right direction will go a long
way in easing anxiety and tensions, which at times
manifests in the form of violence.
Lamenting the social
acceptability which drugs and alcohol have come to enjoy
in society, he stressed on the need to educate parents
and children on the hazards of drugs and how the problem
can be detected at an early stage. He revealed that
youngsters who get used to alcohol and drugs lose
inhibitions, judgement and motor co-ordination and this
often leads to aggression.
"A change in social
values is the need of the times. Both youngsters and
adults need to consciously shun commission of violence
from their day-to-day lives by going in for more
constructive activities,'' says Mrs Raj Sethi,
Chairperson of the Department of Sociology, Panjab
University
Listing some of the
preventive measures which could check the growing
incidence of violence, she said that greater obedience
and respect for law and law enforcement agencies should
be inculcated among the masses, particularly among the
mighty and powerful sections of society, who consider
themselves above law. The agencies should not
discriminate between the mighty and the ordinary people
so as to curb violence. Besides, this intelligent and
investigative mechanism should be used to check illegal
activities and nip crime in the bud.
With a view to restoring
the faith of people in the enforcement of law, Mrs Sethi
suggests trict enforcement with higher rate of
prosecutions and convictions based on evidence and
general merit of the case. The projection of violence in
the media should also be shown a little more subtly since
children do have a tendency to identify with most of the
violent happenings, she opines.
Mrs Asha Dhir, Assistant
Director, Ballistics, Central Forensic Laboratory, Sector
36, maintains that a spurt in the number of discotheques,
bars and high-profile restaurants in the city have led
the youth towards westernised culture. This, coupled with
the freedom and money, which the youth of today enjoyed
were responsible for majority of the ills in society. She
was of the view that parents instead of giving them
unlimited freedom and money should try and spend more
time with them and try and solve their problems through
counselling. They should also refrain them from going for
late night parties and emphasise on a strong value
system.
"The case not only
exposes the inner secrets of such socialite evenings but
the general degeneration that has crept in society due to
lack of effective control of elders," says Dr
S.N.Singla, principal, GCM, sector 11. "The
projection of violence in the media also adversely
affects the impressionable minds"
Parents should regulate
the lifestyles of the children by involving them in
sports and hobbies so that they are not left with much
time to socialise or watch television at the end of the
day. Both schools and colleges should also avail the
services of counsellors to tackle their emotional
problems and help them move on the right path. Effective
and responsive police and administrative authorities can
also play a major role in checking violence, he adds.
Violence can be checked
by removing the social inequalities between the rich and
the poor , asserts Mr Amar Singh Chahal, a lawyer in the
district courts. " Even in the education system we
have failed to evolve a system where the gap between the
rich and the poor can be bridged."
The neo-rich class, who
have acquired wealth all of a sudden should try and
exercise refrain from spending illegal money as in most
cases it leads to law breaking activities, he added
Mr O.P Gagneja, a
parent, calls upon the parents to mend their own
lifestyles before exercising a check on their wards as
children do have a tendency to get influenced by their
parents. They should cut down on their social activities
and concentrate on providing quality lives to their
children. They should inculcate in them fear of religion
so that they imbibe right values and do not go astray. He
also advocates proper utilisation of the capacity of
youngsters for the betterment of society at large.
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