Social media, excessive drinking key triggers of matrimonial discord

Matrimonial disputes are witnessing a worrying trend in the district, with the police and the Alternative Dispute Redressal (ADR) Centre receiving hundreds of cases triggered by issues such as excessive use of social media by both partners, drinking habits of men, and affairs. Official figures reveal that the number of such complaints continues to surge each year, reflecting growing tension and intolerance among couples.

From January 1 to September 30, the police received 1,039 complaints related to matrimonial discord. Of these, 346 FIRs were registered, while 686 cases ended in a compromise. The ADR Centre handled 89 complaints, of which 65 remained unresolved.

During the same period in 2024, the police received 1,176 complaints, registering 280 FIRs and a compromise was reached in 896 cases. The ADR Centre dealt with 308 complaints, of which 84 were settled. In 2023, 942 complaints were lodged, with 290 FIRs registered and 652 compromises achieved. The ADR Centre handled 282 complaints and settled 121 cases, according to data from the Karnal police.

As per the Women Cell, most disputes stem from minor issues that spiral out of control. “We are seeing an increasing number of complaints where couples fight over small matters, like social media usage, sharing passwords, excessive drinking, and late-night outings,” said Rozy, incharge of the cell.

“Many cases could have been resolved at home, but they often end up at the police station,” she said.

Other triggers include husbands refusing to give money to their wives, men moving abroad after marriage, live-in relationships, and family conflicts involving working women.

She also highlighted the unrealistic expectations families often impose on brides, as well as the growing lack of adjustment between spouses. “We encourage couples to seek help early and use counselling services before taking legal steps,” she said.

SP Ganga Ram Punia said, “Whenever a complaint is received, counselling is done by Women Cell officials, so that they can resolve the issue amicably. If counselling does not yield any result, legal action is taken within the stipulated time period.”

Experts say the trend underlines a larger social shift with digital exposure, changing lifestyles, and lack of emotional resilience.