The Middle

I grew up in Chandigarh in the late 1990s, when virtually every birthday party was organised at home. We had the luxury of living in spacious bungalows with verandahs and lush-green lawns. Musical chairs, ‘pass the parcel’ and treasure hunts...

IT started as a tranquil afternoon, the kind that tempts you to believe the universe has finally aligned in your favour. My government vehicle, helmed by a driver whose calm could rival a monk’s, breezed through the winding mountain roads...

A popular song by Diljit Dosanjh has this line, “Main karda fly firda, kayi muh chakki firde ne taah nu...” (I fly high, while many people do nothing but look skyward). Gen Z often shares this number on social media...

The  year was 1980, when good English-medium schools were few and far between. For my parents, securing admission for me at Bishop Cotton School (BCS), Shimla, was a matter of immense pride. Coming from Hoshiarpur, they dreamt of giving me...

My family joined me during the summer vacation while I was commanding a regiment in Ladakh. One day, my adjutant brought a shiny black newborn kitten from an outpost he had visited. My nine-year-old daughter adopted this cute little living...

Albert Einstein told the world, “Everything is relative”. A clever tweak to this truism popped up on my phone the other day: “For some people who amass power and wealth for their relatives, ‘relative is everything’.” I chuckled at this...

IN recent weeks, we witnessed live telecast of the state funerals of two uncommon world leaders, Dr Manmohan Singh and Jimmy Carter. Both statesmen were equally renowned for their humility, integrity and simplicity. Dr Singh served for 10 years as...

GOA, long regarded as a bustling destination for foreigners, is witnessing an unsettling shift. Silent shacks and nearly deserted beaches are ringing alarm bells. A couple of months ago, an entrepreneur claimed on social media that foreign tourist arrivals in...

SHARING a packet of freshly roasted groundnuts, my friend and I sat on a bench just opposite the bank branch near Kali Bari, Shimla, basking in the mellow sunlight. The day was bright as winter had not yet arrived, but...

Every time a patient suffering from a chronic disease like diabetes, hypertension, thyroid disorder or, for that matter, obesity consults me, I always ask, “At what time do you go to bed?” And the reply usually startles me. Most of...

When World War II broke out in 1939, Subedar Richhpal Ram of 4 Rajputana Rifles was on two months’ leave at his village Barda in Gurgaon district. Barda was known in the region as ‘Faujion ka gaon’ since almost every...

This well-maintained museum showcases weapons of mass destruction such as bomber aircraft, tanks, chemical weapons and artillery equipment left by the US forces when Vietnam earned freedom in 1975

My parents aren’t just any regular socialites. They are professional MBAs — Marriage & Bhog Attendees. Weekends for them are a blur of bhogs, high tea soirées and posh shok sabhas — and that’s just the beginning. As soon as...

FROM the clerk at the lowest rung of the administration to the Prime Minister, everyone has to deal with files. How efficiently one handles them often separates a good functionary from the average one. Early in my practical training as...

THE Indian Army’s performance in the 1971 war was unparalleled. The iconic photo of Pakistan’s Lt Gen AAK Niazi signing the Instrument of Surrender in the presence of Lt Gen Jagjit Singh Aurora is an indelible part of our proud...

WHENEVER, in my imagination, I go back to the streets of the town where the days of my childhood, adolescence, youth and middle age were spent, certain figures flash across my mind. Their facial contours, simple and rustic attire, innocent...

DOMESTIC helpers make our life easier and less hectic. They are almost indispensable to working couples and the elderly. My family has been fortunate to have had very good helpers. The first one I remember is Ram Dhani, who came...

THE 1971 war marked the coming of age of the Indian military after the fiasco of 1962 and a significant improvement witnessed during the 1965 war. The Amar Jawan Jyoti was installed at India Gate in New Delhi. It served...

BACK in 1981, my PhD supervisor at Jawaharlal Nehru University, Prof GS Bhalla, asked me to stay back in his office. He was expecting a visitor. Dr Manmohan Singh, then Member, Planning Commission, was scheduled to meet him around 2...

I unabashedly drop the name of Dr Manmohan Singh, who found time for a memorable one-on-one meeting with me, then a lowly official of a state government. The year was 1992, the state was Punjab. Following a decade of terrorism,...

THE clock strikes midnight on December 31. Fireworks explode in the sky, your phone buzzes with identical WhatsApp forwards, and neighbours shout “Happy New Year” over the din. Somewhere in the background, someone vows, “This year, I’ll finally get fit”,...

The Tribune mourns the loss of its loyal reader

BACK when I had long hair and he still had… well, hair, life had a few more strands in it. Looking back, my hair has always been a bit of a personal project — long, short, somewhere in between. Every...

ONE sunny afternoon, I felt drawn to the quiet allure of a nearby garden in my hometown, Ferozepur. It was not the most lavish of gardens, but its charm lay in its simplicity — a mix of vibrant flowers, lush...

BOXING Day or Offering Day, celebrated the day after Christmas, is all about the joy of giving. In keeping with tradition, wealthy people give gifts in boxes to those less fortunate than them. My sons fondly remember their Boxing Day...