A simple farewell

A WARM send-off by schools is as much a part of an outgoing student’s life as hardcore studies; the former, understandably, being an emotional moment, particularly for those who may have studied in the school all through their academic life. That story, however, may now well be in the past, with the Punjab Education Department banning farewell parties for classes X and XII across its schools, declaring the cost puts “financial burden” on parents, which could also lead to “frustration and low esteem” among students. How should it then be celebrated? The letter dashed off to the District Education Officers has the answer; albeit severe: A group photo is enough.

While students may think the department has played the party pooper, the circular is not entirely without merit. It is not just about contribution. Familiar with “promenade (prom) nights” and “graduation ball” in American schools, much goes behind the preparations for the big day: dinner jacket/tuxedo for boys; parlour-assisted hairdos, makeup and saris/gowns for girls, the works — brand new. The drab everyday uniform is finally off; there is peer pressure to turn up looking like a million bucks. This fanfare translates into burning a hole in the pocket of parents who may be unable to afford such a lavish expression of joy. Students from economically weaker sections make a large, if not bulk, part of student strength.

The decision has drawn flak from teachers too, who feel a piddling contribution of Rs 20-30 as a goodwill gesture by juniors is scarcely a burden. Last year the department had imposed restrictions on farewell parties for teachers. Instead of making farewells a non-event, the key is moderation and sensitising students to go for simpler alternatives. The onus would be on teachers, and even more on parents. A donation box can be placed for contributions, which should not be obligatory. The party can be austere. Farewell is an innate part of school life and doing away with it is undesirable. It is, after all, their day. The day they needn’t think about school regimen and discipline. Let them create happy memories without burning a hole in their parents’ pocket.